Joy

It is important for Christians to be joyful (Phil. 4:4). Joy is closely related to the relationships in our lives. When those relationships flourish, when they are based on love and sincerity, we are filled with joy. The Bible talks about the powerful joy that evolves from our relationship with God. If we lack that joy, perhaps it is a sign we need to refocus and examine ourselves. Have we turned away from God? Have we not repented over our sins and mistakes for a while? And, most importantly, have we spent enough time with God, as healthy relationships require time. Only when we spend time with God can we experience the joy that the Bible is talking about.

Another wonderful source of joy in our lives comes from our relationships with our spouses. God knew from the beginning we would seek our other half for happiness and fulfillment. The most common joy killer in marriage is selfishness. It is amazing how sacrificing oneself and serving others can heal and restore us. When we focus on others, we are blessed with joy. No wonder giving is more rewarding than receiving!

A third wonderful source of joy is our children. The Bible says that children are a gift of God. And of course, God’s gifts are for our joy. And though we love them so much, oh, how easy it is to lose the gratefulness and joy in the routine of raising them!

When we begin feeling joyless, let us remember the blessings of faith. Let us be thankful for being chosen by God and be with Him daily. Let us attempt to spend time with our loved ones, as it is the greatest gift we can give them and the source of one of the greatest joys we can experience.

In this most joyful Easter season, let us give thanks for the relationships in our lives.